I'm having trouble deciding if i should invite my uncle who use to be married to my aunt. he and my aunt got divorced about 2yrs ago, it was a bad divorce, but when they were together he treated me and my siblings as their own children( they had decided not to have children) i was very close to him and think of him as a second father. i know it would upset some of my family including my aunt if i do, but i would mean allot for him to be there. please help