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threads[0] = new thread(4460919, 'Central CA Reception Venue - Hosting CHARITY MIXER Sept. 4th, 2010', 'Fresno Events', '01/30/10', '12:04 PM','
Ramada University (Reception Venue) Hosting Charity Mixer, Fresno California
Sept. 4th, 2010 - from 6:00pm to 10:00pm
Location:
Ramada University
324 East Shaw AVE.
Fresno, CA 93710 - Map
FresnoWeddings.Net (your host) - presents - A great way to check out this venue for your reception in Central California!
AND help out the Central Valley Ronald McDonald House!!!!!

Food and Bar will be available.
Per Person FEE TBA
Entertainment Will Be Generously Provided By:
Patrick Contreras (Fresno\'s well-known Rock Violinist!)
Event Design Will Be Donated By: TheDivineEvent.com
For Updates & Reminders Join Us On FaceBook At,
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Fresno-CA/Fresno-Charities-Fresno-Events-For-Charity/262242499568
For More Info. On The Event\'s Purpose Go to: http://www.FresnoCharities.com/ ','38498085');
threads[1] = new thread(4445067, 'Choosing A Beach Wedding Dress', 'Bridal Gowns', '01/28/10', '10:16 PM','Choosing A Beach Wedding Dress
Not every bride wants the same type of wedding dresses, of course, because every bride is different. Some brides want designer and couture wedding dresses for their weddings. And, unfortunately, not every bride can afford a designer wedding dress. Fortunately, there are ways to get your dream couture wedding dress for less than retail. Read More.
CLICK HERE TO SEE WEDDING DRESS PHOTOS


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threads[2] = new thread(4322375, 'WEDDING ACCESSORIES - SUPER STORE!', 'Wedding Shop Online', '01/16/10', '11:13 PM','WEDDING ACCESSORIES - SUPER STORE!
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threads[3] = new thread(4133911, 'Step-mothers Role', 'Maria', '12/26/09', '06:36 AM','
My stepson has recently become engaged and my husband and I will be paying for the rehersal dinner with no financial help from the grooms mother and step-father. Exactly what will my role be? Should I do the planning, inviting, etc. HELP!!! I have no idea what I should be doing.
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threads[4] = new thread(4082779, 'pregnant bride', 'mom-of the bride', '12/20/09', '04:33 AM','My daughter is getting married in June and will be 7 months pregnant at the time. What is the proper ettiquette for a wedding when the bride is 7 mos pregnant. Small intimate family only wedding and dinner or a traditional wedding with flowers, bridesmaids and a dance? Parents of the groom and bride are not certain what will be appropriate.
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threads[5] = new thread(4028501, 'mother of the groom has taken over', 'marny', '12/11/09', '11:37 PM','My daughter is getting married. Should be a happy time. The problem is I don\'t know how to handle the mother of the groom. She is kind of taking over everything I thought I would do with my daughter. So far she\'s "suggested" where the wedding should be (and is going to be), where the reception should be (and most probably will be), who the photographer should be ( and will be), and the latest has been the caterer ( who will probably be). My daughter and I have always had a very close relationship, and I have not been "pushing" anything in the way of suggestions. But at this rate I feel like there will not be anything left for me to do with my daughter. The MOG is a nice lady, but she is use to running social events at her church, and home, etc., so I guess it comes naturally to her to "take over" when it comes to it. Of course the groom is following his mother\'s advice, and my daughter is going along with it too. I just am asking where does that leave me? When I try to explain my feelings to my daughter, she acts like I\'m being the "bad guy". Which makes things even worse, because that isn\'t how our relationship was before all this. Would love to hear from other MOB.
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threads[6] = new thread(4016055, 'guests', 'Marnie Whittaker', '12/10/09', '08:54 AM','How many people on average do you plan on per invitation? I am trying to get a count on what to plan for, for the reception. I know there is a formula, what is it?
Thanks
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threads[7] = new thread(4005367, 'Wedding Photographers GONE WILD!', 'Wedding Guide', '12/08/09', '05:54 PM','Wedding Photographers Gone Wild!
By: Charish Hoover - owner of this site.
(wedding industry professional since 1991)
In the past few years, there have been some "wedding photographers" who have dumped the big one on their contracted clients - thus leaving (literally leaving) their clients without a finalized product in hand.
Not only did these “photographers” not produce a final product to their clients, most of them have left the state, or have evaded contact in every way possible.
WHY DO THESE THINGS HAPPEN???
VARIOUS REASONS:
TECHNOLOGICAL ADVANCEMENTS:
New products such as digital cameras, digital video cameras, music players, etc., that allow the unknowledgeable to appear as if they are in fact knowledgeable are abundant!
Just because someone has an expensive camera, a business name, and a studio, DOES NOT mean that they are a true, experienced, and knowledgeable photographer to entrust your wedding day to.
Your wedding day, cannot be a “DO OVER!”.
Today\'s technology is wonderful; yet, it opens the doors to countless forms of deceit, and abuse.
KNOWLEAGE IS KEY:
Knowledge is key, to not only knowing how to make proper use of new technologically advanced products such as cameras, , ,but is also vital to knowing what to expect (ie. experience).
For Example:
1. What if the only lighting available at an event is very dim candle lighting?
2. What if the only lighting available at an event is florescent lighting?
3. What if the event schedule gets completely changed last minute?
4. What if the church will not allow any flash, or other lighting to be used during the ceremony, , and the church is also a very dark building? On top of that, what if the photographer is not allowed to be anywhere but stationary, toward the back of the isle during the entire ceremony?
This list could go on with countless situations.
LACK OF EXPERIENCE:
Knowledge comes ONLY with experience, NOT from reading the owner’s manual from the box.
Individuals who lack experience with using modern digital cameras, combined with the lack of knowledge on how to properly use their camera in sudden, and unexpected situations is a great recipe for disaster.
Remember your wedding day cannot be a “Do Over!”
POOR BUSINESS MANAGEMENT: (whether the photographer is experienced, or not)
Owning any kind of business, , be it, photography, videography, DJ service, etc. comes with various expenses. (rent, utilities, printing, albums, sales tax, gas, employees) just to name a few.
Lack of business management skills/knowledge, and failure to prioritize, and set funds aside, can, and most likely will be the death, and debt of the business. In such situations, the business will die, yet leaving behind financial debts, and debt/agreements still left to be fulfilled to clients.
Proper management of ALL income is vital to the success, and ultimately the continuation of the business.
LACK OF RESPECT FOR THE WEDDING INDUSTRY
All of the above could be avoided if society had a better RESPECT for, and understanding of the wedding industry.
Bottom line, the wedding industry, is NOT the easy money making monster, so many accuse it of being.
It is exactly “THAT KIND OF THINKING”, that has inspired so many individuals to think that they can simply go buy a fancy camera, take some pictures, and make some quick Moola!!!
There is so much more to the business aspect than simply bringing in money.
Individuals who think like the this, have harmed countless with their ARROGANCE, lack of knowledge, experience, and business management skills.
The wedding industry is full of experienced, honest, and hard working individuals who often loose business/clients to individuals as mentioned above.
Why???? Because such individuals - often use the “we’re cheaper than the others” bait to play on the bride and groom’s desire to save money on their overall wedding. Who doesn’t want to save money right??? Exactly!!! Question is, will it prove to be beneficial in the long run?
The wedding industry has an unspoken rule:
Don’t under-cut the other guys too much (within reason). This unspoken rule, has been around forever. It is the industry’s way of keeping experience at the top. If a particular business has their prices set a significantly lower than others in their same category, , , a red flag should go up in your head.
You should investigate before signing a contract in this case. Ask others in the industry about how long that business has been around, etc. You may simply find out that their prices have always been that low, or they’re having a special sale. Or, you could find out that this particular business has only been in business for a couple of years, which is a potential concern.
WHO HAS PAID THE PRICE?
Not only have brides and grooms paid the price, but the entire wedding industry (the respectable, hard working part) has paid too.
Let’s put a stop to this craziness in 2010, by becoming a more informed public!
Fresno Weddings - Sanger Weddings ','36840243');
threads[8] = new thread(3826101, 'step mom', 'Tammy', '11/15/09', '05:14 PM',' Is it proper etiquette for the step mom to go with daughter and mother to help pick out dress? My other daughter got married about two years ago and the step mom did all the decorating and such. Even with a wedding planner involved. She wasalso planning to light the mother\'s candle with myself but at last minute left me standing deciding against it. I felt very hurt, more like an invited quest (that helped pay my part), but said nothing. She has two girls of her own. I would feel uncomfortable stepping in her place at such a time but I am unsure if that I may be out of line here. In all honesty I feel her involvement is a bit too much, however she knows I will not say anything to her.
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threads[9] = new thread(3797219, 'time for events at the reception', 'Soyla Soto', '11/08/09', '06:13 AM','Dear Sirs,
Please give me information for which event goes first for each of the following if we only have 4 hours for the hall. We start wedding outside at 5:00 and last 30 minutes. We would like to have dinner at about 6:30 and can not figure out what should come next.
1st dance
Father/Daughter
Groom/Son
then what should come next and at what time
Thanks
Mother of the Bride
Soyla Soto
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threads[10] = new thread(3791974, 'FREE Wedding Websites, With Online RSVPs, Photo Galleries, & More!', 'Free Wedding Websites', '11/06/09', '08:38 AM','* Create Your Own Page/Profile, and invite your family and friends to join you!
It can be public, or your can set your profile to private, friends only!
* Add Photos!
* Add Videos, or simply add any Youtube Videos You Like! (easy!)
* Post your own event details, invite others, and get online RSVPs!
* Keep your wedding guests up to date on your wedding plans!
* Add a map for directions to anywhere in the world (your event for example)
* Start your own public, or private group for anything wedding related!
* Get advice, or give advice in the forums.
* Stressed out from all the wedding planning? Enjoy our FREE online games center to blow off some steam!
READY TO SIGN UP?
Go to,
http://www.weddingsocialnetworking.com/sign_up.html
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threads[11] = new thread(3775460, 'my sons wedding', 'maria daniel', '11/01/09', '03:06 AM','My first born is getting married and I would like to know what exactly are my responsibilities as the grooms mother
I also would like to know who should buy the bouquets for the bridesmaids and maid of honor thank you.
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threads[12] = new thread(3756042, 'Over 1,000 Wedding Ideas Photos!', 'Wedding Ideas', '10/24/09', '11:04 PM','Enjoy Our Free Wedding Idea Galleries, With Fresh, New Ideas Added Regularly!
SEE OVER 1,000 MORE PHOTOS!
Pictures Of Wedding Cakes:
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Pictures Of Bridal Hairstyles & Makeup:
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threads[13] = new thread(3687615, 'shower invites', 'Laurie', '09/28/09', '09:18 AM','The bride\'s family has limited the number of guests at the wedding to 150 but we have many more friends we would like to include on a shower. Is it not appropriate to invite someone to a wedding shower that you do not intend to send a wedding invitation to?
Laurie
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threads[14] = new thread(3686882, 'Beach Wedding Theme', 'evazhang', '09/27/09', '07:57 PM','If you can’t make it to the ocean for your wedding, consultant suggests ways to have a beach wedding even if you’re far away. Some of the ideas could be adapted for a real beach wedding.
Brides Attire
Wearing simple wedding dresses or casual wedding dresses is suitable. If you’re not too worried about being conventional, go with a long flowing white beach wedding gown and wide brimmed sun hat or large tropical flower in your hair.
Groom and His Attendant’s Attire
Again, casual is probably better. Wear a nice white sports jacket and white or beige pants. Add some fun to it by donning a colorful beach type tie.
Bridesmaids
Either long or mid-calf bridesmaid gowns or dresses with chiffon scarves to tie back long hair or wide brimmed sun hats. The dresses could be in a colorful pattern like Elegant Bridesmaid Gown or in colors to match your color scheme.
Invitations
Use the beach wedding motif. a nice picture of a tropical beach, for instance. (Create your own with a good scanner and printer.)
Decorations:
Buy plenty of beach balls in a variety of colors and hang them from the ceiling. Rent fake palm trees. Cover wedding guests’ tables with a deep blue table cloth, sprinkled with a little sand in the center and sea shells.
Favours:
Nice large sea shells, with holes drilled in the top of each, and ribbons looped through the hole for hanging. Or cardboard treat boxes filled with chocolate pieces in the shape of beach stuff like sea shells and wrapped in a beach wrapping paper.
Centerpieces:
Large, pillar candles with sea shells embedded in the wax and set in a low, flat dish filled with sand. (Both are easy to find in hobby and gift stores in beach towns like Cape May.)
Pew markers:
Use small lei’s as pew markers, for a tropical beach feel.
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